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No, because Kiera has always been fair as long as I can remember. Even when I don't agree with her she explains herself in a reasonable manner.
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You don't think that I've explained myself in a reasonable manner?
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Well you're not on 'other forums' here. I have and still do moderate other forums and none of them have ever counted going 'off-topic' as spam. I don't know which ones you're talking about
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Kiera I'm not giving you "other forums" as being exemplary, I'm just explaining my terms- so that each knows what the other talks about, and there are no misunderstandings. Let the word mean what you want it to
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Don't 'honey' me. You can try that patronising stuff on someone else. And no, your definition of 'off-topic' is not the same as this message boards.
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I didn't mean "honey" as in "honey, you don't know what you're talking about" I meant honey as in "my sweetheart"
The opposite of how you think I meant it
I just really like you. Whenever I like someone I call them love, honey, dearest, sweetheart, or any appropriate word for a guy *insert word here*
I don't
ever mean it a rude way
I didn't mean to be patronizing at all
And besides Kiera isn't "the definition of off-topic" on this message board just the administrator's opinion? ;) That doesn't mean that mine is wrong
I am just explaining terms
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I will take your suggestion on board but the current situation stands. Sweetheart is certainly not the word I would use to describe him. Vulgar is more appropriate. If he doesn't realize he is being offensive, then he needs to be told. Now that he knows, he needs to quit being such a way. That applies to everyone not just him. He is just the only one who took it too far.
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I don't think he's vulgar, I think he's pretty mature for his age
And honestly I don't think he realizes that he's being offensive either, and sure you can tell him.. just don't threaten to ban him for that
I think that maybe in your terms many things that he might say now will be considered offensive because it's the opinion that you have set of him and you'll be watching out for this- you think that I'm being offensive as well when it's not the intention
at all. I think maybe you misunderstand some intentions. I haven't seen him "take it too far" At all
But overall Kiera, thank you very much for a kind reply